Wherever you want to go in life you have to START WHERE YOU ARE. Taking that first step takes courage. You Can do it. The human spirit is STRONG. Everyone has doubts, everyone has negative, limiting self talk. It is realigning your positive self and taking that step towards your hopes and desires and dreams.
If you don't like who you see in the mirror then get a NEW mirror. You are amazing and are worthy of greatness. Be powerful and present in your life. Be your best friend. Start where you are and grow in appreciation and strength.
Fill yourself with positive energy. Be inspired with new and good ideas. You will be surprised to see how your world changes.
We cannot change the past, we can learn fro it and then leave it in the past. Start where you are now for new experiences which lead to different opportunities.